How to Communicate With Your Fishing Guide to Get Exactly the Trip You Want

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Communicating with your fishing guide means telling the captain exactly what you want from the day before you ever leave the dock, so your expectations and his match. The secret to a successful guided trip is not the biggest fish or the most fish. It is a happy customer, and a happy customer is one who got the day they pictured. In this How 2 Tuesday I walk through how to book a guide trip the right way, the four things you must say on the phone, and the early mistake that taught me to never leave communication to chance.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do you communicate with a fishing guide to get the trip you want?

You communicate by being direct, honest, open, and realistic before the trip ever starts. Tell the guide exactly what you want to do, give an honest assessment of your skill level, stay flexible on timing and tackle, and make sure you understand what a realistic day looks like for the fishery you are booking. The whole thing comes down to clear communication on the phone. If you set expectations correctly up front, you and your guide are on the same page, and that is what makes for a great day on the water.

What questions should I ask before booking a fishing guide?

Ask what a realistic day looks like for the species you want, what time of year gives the most variety, and whether the guide specializes in the kind of fishing you have in mind. If you are bringing a kid or a beginner, ask for the trip that keeps the rod bent all day rather than a technical hunt for one species. There are no dumb questions, from the customer or the guide. The questions are how you both avoid the miscommunication that ruins an otherwise perfect day.

Why is communication more important than catching fish on a guided trip?

Because the real goal of any guided trip is a happy customer, not a number. A happy customer returns, and a returning customer is what makes a guide successful. Sometimes the most fish or the biggest fish is exactly what the angler wants, and sometimes it is not. If you never communicate what success looks like to you, the guide is guessing, and a guess is how you end up grinding for one tough species all morning when you would have been thrilled bending the rod on anything that swims.

What happened on the bonefishing trip that taught me this lesson?

Early in my career I booked a man who asked all the right questions and wanted to go bonefishing in the Florida Keys. I assumed he understood that catching four or five of our big, spooky bonefish is an amazing day. We had a spectacular morning of shots and he did not land one. At lunch he saw snappers by a mangrove, caught one, and lit up, asking why we had not been doing that the whole time. He thought bonefishing just meant riding around on a poling skiff catching whatever. That gap in communication changed how I talked to every customer after.

How honest should I be about my fishing skill level?

Completely honest. Tell the guide how long you have fished, what tackle you are comfortable with, and what you actually want out of the day. If you say you are not a great caster but you will stand on the deck all day waiting for a shot at permit, plenty of guides will be all in with you. Your skill level matters far less than being paired with the right guide for what you want to do. Honesty up front is what makes that pairing work.

What if the guide I called does not specialize in what I want?

Be open to a referral. If you call a guide and ask for a type of fishing he does not specialize in, and he offers a buddy who is great at it, take that suggestion and give the other captain a call. He is trying to point you toward the best possible day, not turn down your business. Staying flexible on the guide, the timing, and the tackle is one of the four habits that gets you the trip you are actually after.

How to Communicate With Your Guide to Get Exactly the Trip You Want

Here are the four things I tell every angler to do before booking a guide. I walk through each one with stories in the episode.

  1. Be direct. Express exactly what you want to do. If you only want to fly fish for permit and ignore everything else, say so. If you want a kid kept busy all day, say that instead. The guide needs to know your target so he can match the trip to it.
  2. Be honest. Give the guide an honest assessment of your fishing skills. Tell him how long you have fished, what tackle you handle well, and how good a caster you really are. Honesty gets you paired with the right guide.
  3. Be open. Stay flexible with your travel dates, the time of year, the tackle you use, and the possibility of fishing with a referral. Flexibility opens up far more opportunity than a rigid plan.
  4. Understand what you are asking for. Know what a realistic day looks like for that fishery. Fly fishing for permit is not a hundred-fish day. Set your expectations to the species and the season so the day lands the way you pictured it.

I unpack each of these in detail, with the stories behind them, in the episode. Press play in the player above.

Why a Happy Customer Matters More Than a Big Fish

When I was guiding every single day, I learned that the secret of a successful guide is not the biggest fish or the most fish. It is a happy customer. A happy customer comes back, and a returning customer is what builds a guiding career. It is easy to forget that in the pursuit of a hero shot. Sometimes the most fish is exactly what the angler wants, and sometimes it is the last thing on his mind. I get into why that mindset shift changed how I ran every trip in the episode, so press play in the player above.

The Bonefishing Trip That Changed How I Talk to Customers

I booked a man who asked all the right questions and wanted bonefish. We had a spectacular morning of shots and he never landed one. At lunch he saw snappers by a mangrove, caught one, and asked why we had not been doing that all day. He thought bonefishing just meant riding the skiff and catching whatever came along. That moment taught me that even an angler who sounds dialed in can be picturing a completely different day. I tell the whole story in the episode, so press play in the player above.

How to Set Up the Right Trip for a Beginner or a Kid

If you are an experienced angler bringing a six or seven year old, the technical permit hunt you love is probably not the day that kid wants. He wants to bend the rod. Call the guide and ask for the time of year with the most variety and the most opportunity to catch a lot of different fish and keep the rod bent all day. Some guides love that trip and some are set up only for the technical stuff. Communicating that up front is how you find the right one. I explain how to frame that call in the episode, so press play in the player above.

Final Thoughts From Me

Every great guided trip I have ever been part of started with a clear conversation before anyone untied the lines. Be direct, be honest, be open, and understand what you are asking for. Do those four things and you give yourself every tool to get the trip you are after.

If you are booking a trip soon, especially one where you are bringing someone with a different skill level or attention span, take the few minutes to talk it through with your guide first. It is the cheapest insurance there is for a great day. Press play in the player above.

More How 2 Tuesday Tutorials

How 2 Tuesday is my weekly series where I break down one fishing skill at a time, from knots and casting to gear, tactics, and the habits that make you a better angler. Watch and listen to every How 2 Tuesday episode from Tom Rowland.

People & Topics Mentioned

Florida Keys · bonefishing · permit on fly · tarpon · snapper · jack crevalle · redfish · snook · poling skiff · C.A. Richardson · How 2 Tuesday · Saltwater Experience

About Me

I'm Tom Rowland, a professional fishing guide based in the Florida Keys, host of the Tom Rowland Podcast, and the longtime host of the Saltwater Experience television show. On the podcast's How 2 Tuesday series I break down one practical skill or lesson at a time, from fishing technique and gear to the habits that make you a better angler, in short, focused episodes you can put to use right away.

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