Meditation: A Practice In Gratitude

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The gratitude practice is a simple guided meditation: lie down, relax, draw a small circle around your heart, be thankful for your health, and push the circle outward — body, family, friends, coworkers, and beyond — as far as your time allows. It is how we end workouts at my gym about once a week, ten minutes on the clock, and it grounds the whole day in thankfulness. No cross-legged monk pose required. In this Physical Friday I walk you through the entire practice of the Red Rocket Lounge.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the gratitude practice?

It is a guided meditation we do in the cooldown after a workout, about once a week. Everybody finds a comfortable spot sitting or lying down, we set the clock for eight to twelve minutes, and we walk through expanding circles of thankfulness — starting with your own health and pushing outward to your body, your closest family, extended family, friends, coworkers, and where you live. It grounds you in thankfulness and gratitude to start the day.

How do you do a gratitude meditation?

Lie down, close your eyes, and start by watching your breath. Scan for tension — unclench your jaw, relax your forehead, drop your shoulders, open your fists. Then draw a small circle around your heart in your mind and be thankful for your health. Push the circle out to your whole body and the ability to move and do the things you love. Then widen it to your wife and children, picturing each face. Keep expanding — extended family, friends, coworkers, your home — as far as time allows, and if you can, walk the circles back in before the alarm sounds.

Do you have to sit cross-legged to meditate?

No. When I think of meditation I picture a monk sitting cross-legged with eyes closed for ages, and I have tried routines like that — some worked, some did not. This practice asks nothing of your posture. Lie down, sit, or even do it walking around with your eyes open while washing dishes, mowing the grass, or driving to work. The only requirement is thinking about what you are grateful for.

How long should a gratitude practice take?

Five minutes is plenty to feel it, and ten to twelve is what we usually do. You may chew through five minutes very quickly and hear the alarm at your third or fourth circle — that is fine, that was the allotted time for today. If you have longer, push the circles further out and leave a little time to walk them back in, finishing thankful for your family and your health again.

What if I'm sick or injured — what do I give thanks for?

Be thankful that you are recovering, and that your body is able to recover. If you are healthy, be thankful for that — it is incredible that you woke up this morning, took a breath, and can move around and do the things you want to do. The practice meets you wherever you are; you can substitute anything in your life that you are thankful and grateful for.

Why do a gratitude practice after a workout?

Because the cooldown is a natural moment when the body is relaxed and the mind is open, and because it makes the practice a habit attached to something you already do. It is honestly very hard to have a bad day when you start the day this way. It may not be a barbell or a run, but it is an equally important part of my workout routine and my physical diet as anything we do.

Something Very Close to My Heart

This is a special one. I do not do this every day, but at least once a week we close a workout with this practice, and I have never shared it on the show before. There is a lot of talk about meditation right now, and I do not really even call this meditation — but it definitely is. We call it the gratitude practice. Press play in the player above and you can follow along.

The Red Rocket Lounge

At the end of the episode I let a small secret out: I have never actually told anybody the name of my gym. It is called the Red Rocket Lounge — the RRL — and this is the gratitude practice of the RRL. It has been very powerful for me and very powerful for my friends. There is also a guided version on the website you can download and follow along with. Press play in the player above.

How to Do the Gratitude Practice

Here is the practice exactly as we do it at the gym, step by step.

  1. Set the clock and get comfortable. Set eight to twelve minutes, lie down or sit somewhere comfortable, and close your eyes.
  2. Watch your breath and release tension. Breathe in and out with no particular thought, then scan your body — unclench the jaw, relax the forehead, drop the shoulders, open the hands.
  3. Circle your heart. Draw a small circle around your heart in your mind and be thankful for your health — for waking up this morning and taking a breath. If you are sick or injured, be thankful you are recovering.
  4. Expand to your body. Push the circle out to cover your whole body and be grateful you can move well and do the things you want to do.
  5. Add your closest people. Widen the circle to your immediate family — picture each face, each laugh, one thing about them that makes you thankful.
  6. Keep pushing outward. Extended family, then friends and coworkers, then where you live — a safe home, a car, whatever you are grateful for — moving faster as the circles grow.
  7. Walk the circles back in. If time allows, reverse course: coworkers, friends, family, and finally your health again, then check for tension one last time before you open your eyes.

I walk through each of these in the episode. Press play in the player above.

Final Thoughts From Me

When you come out of this practice you are grounded in thankfulness and gratefulness, and it is an amazing way to start or end a day. It is honestly very hard to have a bad day that begins this way.

If you try the gratitude practice or you have one of your own, I would love to hear about it — email me at podcast@saltwaterexperience.com. If you like this episode, send it to someone else, and a rating and review on iTunes goes a long way to helping people find the show. I am thankful and grateful for this audience, which has grown every day since we started. Press play in the player above.

People & Topics Mentioned

gratitude practice · guided meditation · Red Rocket Lounge · breath awareness · mindfulness · cooldown routine · thankfulness · Physical Friday · Saltwater Experience

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